On Love & Affinity

One can love one's relatives without having a particularly close-knit relationship. Personal values and lifestyle might have changed so much that there isn’t enough basic compatibility to form a strong common bond. Even though this might be the family one grew up with and shared many memories with, one's core values are so different now that one has moved on. Despite all these differences, one can be on good terms with each other and get along fairly well, but one's differences create such a big gap that one has to settle for being relatives without being close friends. If one is fortunate enough to have a close family that is wonderful but what if one's family isn't close? Dealing with this situation broadens one's definition of 'family'. I feel an unconditional connection with all human beings. I have a strong commitment to doing good for the planet as best I can. And a strong commitment to helping those who are less able. When I see people who are living very, very consciously and deliberately and who’ve dedicated their lives to the pursuit of a worthy purpose, I have a strong sense that on some level, those people are members of my surrogate family.